{"id":19873,"date":"2017-12-20T19:11:30","date_gmt":"2017-12-20T19:11:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.resellerclub.com\/?p=19873"},"modified":"2026-05-22T10:36:23","modified_gmt":"2026-05-22T10:36:23","slug":"how-to-reject-customer-request-politely","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/blog\/how-to-reject-customer-request-politely\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Turn Down Customer Requests Courteously"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On our social media, we often joke about how many changes we as developers &amp; designers receive from clients with the hashtag #webdesignerproblems. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-19875 size-full\" src=\"\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/joke.png\" alt=\"Customer Service Request\" width=\"617\" height=\"390\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Funny as it may be, in real life, it can be frustrating to have to re-do images or implement the client\u2019s changes because he\u2019s either unsure of what he wants or is over ambitious or simply, hard to please. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this article, we\u2019ll discuss how to turn down such requests politely (this applies to any type of customer request). <\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Genuinely listen to your customer\u2019s request<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First off, hear your customer out. Hearing him out lets your customer know he\u2019s valued and important. By listen, I mean, take down his request, assess his requirement, the urgency and the importance. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you\u2019ve heard your customer out and evaluated that you cannot take the up the project, then proceed to tackle the request with alternatives which is tactic no. 2.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Try an alternative<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of saying an outright \u201cno\u201d which could seem rude, find a way to turn down a request in a positive manner. You can do this by asking the customer or client a few questions like:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do you want to do this?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What resolution are you expecting?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Asking questions like these convey to your customer that you\u2019re trying your best to work things out. Surprisingly, sometimes the client may think he needs one thing but could actually need something else. In the meantime, look for alternative solutions instead of his exact outcome. Ask yourself what work around you can find.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Explain what you can do<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In other words, be honest. Now, yes you don\u2019t have to oblige every request you get (that\u2019s the point of this article) but again, instead of a \u201cno\u201d, explain to your client <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">why <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you can\u2019t take up his request.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Explaining it to him lets him understand you\u2019ve considered his request but unfortunately, can\u2019t provide the exact outcome that he\u2019s expecting due to time or bandwidth constraints. Explaining helps maintain the rapport you have with the customer while still being realistic about your work.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Make sure your rejection email is clear<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes it\u2019s hard to convey a good-intentioned message on email as email doesn\u2019t carry tone (Fun fact, Fox Type is a web app that actually analyzes how polite or rude your message is).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While rejecting customer requests on email, make sure:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You thank the customer for his request<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure you\u2019re clear about declining the request<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mention what you can do<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reaffirm your answer at the end<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me give you a real-life example. We accept good quality guest posts on the ResellerClub blog and a lot of requests that do come to me are from experienced writers with above average content. Now, sometimes a writer (who has already published a guest article on our blog) requests to publish more than 1 article. In this case, I politely email them something that goes like this:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hey xyz,<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #00ccff;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thank you for writing in to me. Your first article has been performing well on our blog. Many congratulations! <\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff99cc;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thank you for your interest to publish a second piece of content on our blog. Unfortunately, since we just posted an article in your name, it will be a while till we publish one again because we want to give other writers a chance too. <\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #99cc00;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We do value your partnership and will reach out to you if we do decide to publish content in your name again. Have a great day!<\/span><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheers.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #00ccff;\">Acknowledge your existing relationship, build rapport<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #ff99cc;\">Let him know you\u2019ve heard his request before you say no. Proceed to explain your reason for declining his request.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; color: #99cc00;\">Assure him you\u2019ll revisit his request in the future<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I hope I\u2019ve managed to give you some direction with rejecting requests politely. Pro tip: Pick and choose which ones to reject. It\u2019s OK to reject customer requests in these scenarios:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Too many \/ unreasonable changes from the client <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of bandwidth\/ resources to take up a new client<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Beyond discussed scope of work (In this case, I suggest pitching this as an \u2018upgrade\u2019 at an additional fee)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breach of a policy, non-compete<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Addressing the \u2018unlimited\u2019<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many brands and companies offer \u2018unlimited\u2019 services which almost always will have soft limits and is still subject to an Acceptable Use Policy (AUP). If you\u2019re going to be providing &nbsp;an \u2018unlimited\u2019 service, ensure you communicate this to your customers so tackle multiple or unreasonable requests.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let us know in the comments section if you\u2019ve got more tips.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Reseller Club Hosting Services<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/reseller-hosting\">Reseller Hosting<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/windows-reseller-hosting\">Windows Reseller Hosting<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/cloud-hosting\">Cloud Hosting<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/vps-hosting\">VPS Hosting<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/managed-vps-hosting\">Managed VPS Hosting<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/dedicated-server-hosting\">Dedicated Server Hosting<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/windows-dedicated-server-hosting\">Windows Dedicated Server<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/managed-dedicated-server-hosting\">Managed Dedicated Server<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/shared-hosting\">Linux Shared Hosting<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/windows-shared-hosting\">Windows Shared Hosting<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"fb-background-color\">\n\t\t\t  <div \n\t\t\t  \tclass = \"fb-comments\" \n\t\t\t  \tdata-href = \"https:\/\/www.resellerclub.com\/blog\/how-to-reject-customer-request-politely\/\"\n\t\t\t  \tdata-numposts = \"10\"\n\t\t\t  \tdata-lazy = \"true\"\n\t\t\t\tdata-colorscheme = \"light\"\n\t\t\t\tdata-order-by = \"social\"\n\t\t\t\tdata-mobile=true>\n\t\t\t  <\/div><\/div>\n\t\t  <style>\n\t\t    .fb-background-color {\n\t\t\t\tbackground:  !important;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t.fb_iframe_widget_fluid_desktop iframe {\n\t\t\t    width: 100% !important;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t  <\/style>\n\t\t  ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On our social media, we often joke about how many changes we as developers &amp; designers receive from clients with the hashtag #webdesignerproblems. 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